Cooking and Love

Cooking is an expression of love.
Sharing a meal, lunch, breakfast, dinner with someone is also a form of love.
Taking someone you really like to share a meal, is a form of intrigue, a privilege--and easily can be the beginning of love.

When the modern dating smarts demean it to mean everything but that, well you can look around yourself, your life and [socially conditioned] attitude and approach to dating, and you will find all your values will be laid out like your outfit for work, the night before.
What did you find?
Is it pleasing?
Is it what you want, what makes you happy and turned on?
It should be.
It was just yesterday I thought of a modern day dating guru. A man. Extremely charming, and great looking--teaching woman how to get, keep and turn on a guy.
There is absolutely nothing personal and let me say attractive, nor attracting in there. IT is more manipulative, and did not have any sensory feeling of being awakened.
How much more pleasurable is it to be awakened by the 'like' and intrigue one feels for someone else, and pursue that call simply.
Living for Love.

xo

The Luxury of having it all

Today, allow yourself the luxury of having it all.
In all ways you desire.
Little. Big.
What are some of the ways, you can call LIFE into being present, in ALL the ways YOU do desire?
xo

PS:
"Thank you, Divine Beloved
For changing me into One
Who allows Herself the
Supreme pleasure of
Having It All."

Running on adrenalin no more

Running on adrenalin 
Having that glorified, is boring
It is tiring and lacks life for me

It is like loud obnoxious noise at a concert
You do not enjoy and
Must escape
And I LOVE concerts
The kinds that make me melt into my seat
Or without notice
I am picked up into the enjoyment
And only brought back down, when
The artists had sang the last song

Years ago I was the opposite
I thought it WAS the very value to glorify
The only way that COUNT

Not today
Not anymore

Today, I want to feel, sense, clearly and fully

I want to have the purity of the exact experience before me
One I choose
One I realize
One I desire
One that resonates with my Highest within me
As me
One I am

Are Bikini/Figure Competitions really the answer to cure Eating Disorders?

Are Bikini/Figure Competitions really the answer to cure Eating Disorders?

This is for the ladies in mind, but the gent's are also invited to read and reflect.

This morning I was prompted by a post on Eating Disorders, it was in connection to the Bikini/Figure Competitions, whose season is now in full effect.

To be very clear, Bikini/Figure Competitions are NOT cure for Eating Disorders, far from it.  You may feel like it as you are getting close to contest day and you SEE the results and are feeling good about what your mirror reflects and the 'Like's you receive on social media.

Eating Disorders are the RESULT, the EFFECT of some underlying MAJOR, if not complete disconnect of the self from the Self.  It is the disintegration of one's whole being/existence at the mental, soul and physical level.   Contest Prep is like highest flammable oil one self-volitionally pours over the already lit fires--one desperately, yet foolishly attempted to control for some while.....

We have an entire industry (that is blowing up), built around this and more.
Why?
Why do we bring about more disorders and glorify it?
Why?
And claim, 'you look great!'
Yes, on stage.  Maybe.  And, from the distance.  And on images....
In reality, no. It is not pretty, it is not normal, it is not natural. It is not alive, it is not at peace, it is not happy, it is not prosperous, it is not fulfilling.

You can have it all, but you have to know what you are doing, and most importantly WHY!!!!  It may take a more frustrating, far from the mainstream 'how to'
But as you commit and follow it through your results will be beautiful, healing and healthy.......

Sending you my love.
xo
Monika

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