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When you judge someone you do not have time to [get to] know them.
All you are doing is reaffirming your convictions; strengthening the wall that separates you from the world, keeps you in your bubble, leaving you deeper in your own views.

Let the vulnerability of the possibility bring you closer to the world, to another it is safe. If it is to be, it will work. If it is not, it will prepare for the next, whatever, wherever that may be.