There is more in you, a lot more.......

Afraid

We all have SO much fear inside; especially when it comes to the matters of the heart.  Best proof: the very existence of books, rules, 'ways to love' etc...  It is a huge business-idea, a very small, 'bring home TRUE Love, and enjoy it as a 'Divine Expression of YOU' idea.  If you know what I mean.

Why else would you suppose we doubt, run from our organic crave and call for behind held by our beloved?  Instead of reaching out, we run the opposite way, FEARING to appear a certain way, usually clingy or, wonder 'what they may think?'  Best case scenario, we run to others, asking for advice; seeking 'what they may think,' or ask, 'what should I do?'  And, at best, we receive the 'he should do this, if he really cared, ...' or the 'She should bap pap pap pa paaa...IF she really loved you.'  Really?

Such waste of the most precious in us, and of our time. 

None of us ever really go beyond this point, because THAT is, as we have been conditioned to believe, IS where it is safe.  This is as far as we are conditioned to go to.  Beyond here, is where we pull down the blinds, assume we are "Right."  I.e. THIS IS where it is *still* safe for us to go, and beyond here we don't go.  We just don't.  It is like that safety net of invisible boundaries, we have learned NOT to move beyond.  Such that an animal would be like, once they get accustomed to the limitations of the invisible fence.

Let me ask, assuming some small spark of 'a-ha' came forth from this piece, WHAT has FEAR cost you in your life, when it comes to love, or overall?

What has fear been costing you?

How do you think you can change this?

How WILL you change this?

If you are of the more evolved ones, how HAVE you moved beyond the boundaries of FEAR?  What values have you brought into existence as a result of moving beyond the ideas of fear?  How has fear transformed you into who you are today? 

Wherever you are on your journey with fear, know this, fear truly really is just fear. False Evidence Appearing Real. Do your best to move into it, through it, and let it fall by your feet. Free yourself from its weight, its grab, it is but an illusion.  The real you, happiness, all that you are and about to become is awaiting you right behind fear.