In order for new beginnings, starting over, you must, volitionally, surround yourself with people, things and influences ONLY, that call you up and into growth. Those that propel you towards your greatest potential and dreams. In order to create the things, and life you want and deserve.
These are ongoing process; ever evolving. So this requires your ongoing, renewed commitment to your best, highest, even if the 'here and now' may not [yet] reflect evidence of it.
Everything else must go and fall away.
Cultivate the faith, character, and work ethic necessary for putting forth the effort, resources, work and creation of it all. So you may make manifest your character for all you want and more.